In chapter 3, Byron Bunch recounts the story he is told of Hightower’s history in Jefferson. He is completely aware of the infidelity of Hightower’s wife and how she died. Considering this, it is odd that of all people he should choose to talk to about Lena Grove and his increasing feelings for her, he chose Hightower. With the stigma associated with cuckholds, and Lena’s search for the father of her unborn child being mildly obstructed by Byron, Hightower would be the least likely to sympathize with him. This can be seen when Byron tells Hightower about how he convinced Lena to wait with him at the mill instead of searching for Brown where the Burden house was burning. Hightower’s response is telling:
“’You did what you could. All that any stranger would be expected to do. Unless…’ His voice ceases also. Then it dies away on that inflection… And opposite Byron, Hightower does not yet think love. He remembers only that Byron is still young and has led a life of celibacy and hard labor, and that by Byron’s telling the woman whom he has never seen possesses some disturbing quality at least, even though Byron still believes that it is only pity. So he watches Byron now with a certain narrowness neither cold nor warm” (LIA 82).
There is a buildup happening here. Hightower assumes that Byron is unaware of his feelings toward Lena, but still describes Bryon’s dealings with her as disturbing. Hightower then begins to listen to the story with this in mind. After Byron tells how he decided to have Lena stay at the same boarding house as him, Hightower becomes increasingly suspicious:
“And now there begins to come into Hightower’s puzzled expression a quality of shrinking and foreboding as Byron talks quietly, telling about how he decided after they reaches the square to take Lena on to Mrs. Beard’s” (LIA 82-83).
While Byron may not be aware of his feelings for Lena as Hightower assumes, it is very odd that Byron wouldn’t consider to whom he is speaking to about bringing a woman who is pregnant with another man’s child to live close to him. Especially considering how similar assumptions of sexual relationships were presumed by the town about Hightower and his African American servants. Even more so in the case of the African American baby he delivered that died and the town had assumed that it was his child (LIA 74). Even if Byron did not realize he was in love with Lena yet, surely, he is aware of the negativity associated with taking care of a single pregnant woman whose child is not his and how Hightower’s bitter history would not make him the most sympathetic listener. One has to wonder what Byron was thinking in confessing to Hightower.
In my opinion, there are two options. Either Byron’s isolation from the town has caused him to lack the social skills to understand that he is hitting a sore spot by confessing this issue to Hightower. Or he is fully aware and even expects Hightower to give him biased feedback. The second option would make sense because Byron is a religious man and is described as being part of a church choir (LIA 48). Perhaps Byron believes that having someone who is both a priest and who has a bitter history with infidelity might dissuade him from what he might view as sin. That being getting involved with a woman who has a connection with another man. This is the more likely case, and if so, then Byron certainly is pushing his limits which shows something about his character. It shows that it is not a priority for Byron to maintain his personal relationships. His motivation is purely that of internal introspection without regard for outside influences. His isolation and working on Saturdays (LIA 47) is further evidence of this.

